Post by Baloo on Dec 29, 2003 10:42:00 GMT -5
OK, I need a little input here. Let me try to give you the readers digest version of the situation, and you tell me how you would handle the situation...
About 2 years ago my parents began looking for a new house, so they got a realtor as most people might. Since then, my Dad and this realtor (female) have become very good friends. Up until now, my Sister and I have tried to dismiss it as nothing more than friends. However, lately he has been on the phone with her almost 24/7 and he 'helps' her with open houses and he goes to her house to help her with her computer (BTW, he's a plumber), he knows NOTHING about computers. We still try to dismiss it as 'Dad would never do that to Mom'. BUT, two weeks ago, he took my sisters kids out for lunch, where he met this person... let's call her... umm.... Jennifer . So, while they were eating, they shared a drink and he called her 'baby'. Then, about a week ago, he took one of my sisters kids to go shopping with him. The shopping he was doing was seraching for a suit for 'Jennifer'. Well, he couldn't find her a suit, so he bought her a $100 gift cert. to Foley's. After shopping, they met Jennifer for lunch, where he proceeded to share a drink with her again. My neice is 12, she's not stupid, so she is of course asking my Sister what's going one. My pore Mom is so FING doped up on pills the doctor gives her, that she either doesn't know what's going on, or she does, but can't mentally do anything about it. My Dad is not a player and has never done anything like this before. He's always been the great story book Father and Husband, that's why it's so weird for this to be happening. BTW, Jennifer is in her mid 30's. So, if any of this makes sense, what would you do in this situation?
P.S. I don't want to end up with a sibling younger than my child
About 2 years ago my parents began looking for a new house, so they got a realtor as most people might. Since then, my Dad and this realtor (female) have become very good friends. Up until now, my Sister and I have tried to dismiss it as nothing more than friends. However, lately he has been on the phone with her almost 24/7 and he 'helps' her with open houses and he goes to her house to help her with her computer (BTW, he's a plumber), he knows NOTHING about computers. We still try to dismiss it as 'Dad would never do that to Mom'. BUT, two weeks ago, he took my sisters kids out for lunch, where he met this person... let's call her... umm.... Jennifer . So, while they were eating, they shared a drink and he called her 'baby'. Then, about a week ago, he took one of my sisters kids to go shopping with him. The shopping he was doing was seraching for a suit for 'Jennifer'. Well, he couldn't find her a suit, so he bought her a $100 gift cert. to Foley's. After shopping, they met Jennifer for lunch, where he proceeded to share a drink with her again. My neice is 12, she's not stupid, so she is of course asking my Sister what's going one. My pore Mom is so FING doped up on pills the doctor gives her, that she either doesn't know what's going on, or she does, but can't mentally do anything about it. My Dad is not a player and has never done anything like this before. He's always been the great story book Father and Husband, that's why it's so weird for this to be happening. BTW, Jennifer is in her mid 30's. So, if any of this makes sense, what would you do in this situation?
P.S. I don't want to end up with a sibling younger than my child